It’s comforting to believe that everything happens for a reason. Maybe the universe fights for certain souls to find one another. Maybe the universe places people in your life just to take away, just to teach you things that not all people would stay. Maybe the universe fights for heartbreaks, for missed opportunities, for bad timing. The universe would know that  those moments will show you your strength. Maybe it is within those losses that you truly find gratitude for all that stayed. We never know what the universe has for every individual on this planet. 

No one asks to be insecure, to have anxiety, to be depressed, to go through your day with handling their mind saying things that shouldn’t be said, and I can surely guarantee you no one enjoys it either. Sometimes people experience and get put through things that they should never get put through, because so many people in this world take advantage of the people that feel a little too much and give too many chances that will leave them broken and cold. When those breaks dont get put back right and it's all left messy then you're not just right either. It’s a long road to try and put yourself back together again to glue the pieces back together.  People have their own time, they have their own space that they need. It’s okay if you need more time than others, it's okay if your body can't have the capacity as much as other people.

Take your time, don’t rush yourself just because others are faster than you. At the end of the day, you've got to remember that NO ONE in this world is built like you and you've got to remember that not everyone has the same heart as you. So comparing yourself to other people will hurt you more. You will definitely go through tough times, and you can’t blame yourself. The only thing you could do is just accept it and try to handle it.